FOR WIDOWS WONDERING WHAT COMES NEXT

Life didn’t unfold the way we imagined.

You’ve learned how to keep going.

But surviving a life you never expected and knowing how you want to live it are two different things.

YOU ARE STILL HERE

The question becomes: What now?

Somewhere along the way, it may have become harder to know where you fit inside the life you’ve worked so hard to keep going.

You don’t need to have the answers yet. You may simply need a place to be honest about what you miss, what you want, what scares you, and what might still be possible—alongside women asking some of the same questions. ‍ ‍

A DIFFERENT KIND OF SPACE FOR WIDOWS

Grief belongs here. But so does everything else.

What you want.

Who you are now.

What you’re allowed to hope for.

both sides of the room

For more than twenty years, I’ve sat on one side of the room as a psychotherapist, helping people navigate some of the most difficult parts of their lives. Then I found myself on the other side.

I became a widow. And everything I understood professionally had to make room for what I was coming to know personally.

There are things we can understand about grief. And there are things we can only know by living them.

Grief can remain part of your story without becoming the whole story.

LIFE BEYOND SURVIVING

Loss changes us. Coming back to yourself is not about returning to who you were before. It is about creating a life that can hold what has been lost—and what is still becoming.

coming back to yourself

Some parts of your life may still feel true; others may no longer fit in quite the same way. Together, we can notice what you want to carry forward, what you may be ready to release, and what deserves room now.

making room for a life that fits

You didn’t get to choose what happened. But you still have a say in the life you build from here—in what you want, what you value, and the choices that are yours to make. Not because grief is finished, but because this is still your life.

THE CHOICES THAT ARE YOURS

MEETING WHAT’S Here

THE APPROACH
Grounded in more than twenty years of clinical experience, this work draws from a thoughtful blend of therapeutic approaches—guided by what is happening beneath the surface and what needs tending now.
SHAPED AROUND YOU.
THE NERVOUS SYSTEM                    Creating more room for steadiness 
TRAUMA + LOSS                        Understanding what you’ve                     lived through
ATTACHMENT + RELATIONSHIPS Understanding what gets stirred
IDENTITY                                     Meeting who you are now
PATTERNS + BELIEFS             Understanding what has taken hold
POSSIBILITY                                           Making room for your life

Willowhood is a three-month, clinician-led experience for women who are ready to move beyond surviving and become curious about the life that is still theirs to live. Front Porch conversations for the next season are now open. All circle gatherings and private sessions are held virtually.

willowhood

BEFORE WE BEGIN

THE FRONT PORCH

A private 30-minute conversation before the season begins—a chance for us to meet, talk about where you are, answer your questions, and listen together for whether this is the place for you right now.

TOGETHER

THE CIRCLE

Twelve weekly 75-minute gatherings with a small circle of women—a place to be known and supported as you move through this season together.

JUST FOR YOU

YOUR SPACE

Eight 50-minute individual sessions woven throughout the twelve weeks—a place to go deeper, tend to what is uniquely yours, and begin making room for the life that is taking shape.

THE DETAILS

willowhood at a glance


Women

A small circle with room to be known

12

Weeks

One intentionally held season

6

Private Sessions

Individual space woven throughout

75

Minutes

One weekly gathering

8

YOU MAY RECOGNIZE YOURSELF HERE

WHO WILLOWHOOD IS FOR

Willowhood is for women who are no longer living in the earliest days of grief, yet sense there is more to tend than simply getting through.

WANTING SUPPORT THAT IS BOTH PERSONAL AND SHARED


CURIOUS ABOUT WHO YOU ARE NOW


LONGING TO BE KNOWN AND UNDERSTOOD

THE INVESTMENT

A Place Held For You

This is a deeply supported twelve-week experience, with room for both the shared work within the circle and the work that is uniquely yours.

WILLOWHOOD INCLUDES:

12 weekly 75-minute gatherings


8 private 50-minute sessions


A small circle of six women


PAYMENT OPTIONS

$2,500

Paid in full, or three monthly payments of $875 ($2,625 total).

If you’re wondering whether this may be the season for you, a private Front Porch conversation is the place to begin.

BEGIN THE CONVERSATION